.To forgive and forget.

I've been juggling a lot in my perception towards friendships lately. Serious thinking has been inevitable ever since we mature. The saying has always been, quality prevails over the quantity. Quality friends are what you preserve. I did exactly what it meant. But somehow, quality friends make mistakes, or even did something to hurt your feelings. So then, what's the next step? To dump them? or to forgive and forget?

After much contemplation, these quality friends were remorseful and I'm supposed to forgive and forget. But, can I? I tried, and I forgave. But, the 'to-forget' part? Some matters are unforgettable. The memory of each day I was hurt, haunts me. The best of friends, and the best times we've ever spent managed to overshadow the fact that I've been hurt, but it'll never take it away from me. Nonetheless, they're still my best friends.

Somehow, I feel some sense of relief at this point of time. I think, I can make it. To forgive and forget. To say that I've forgiven but in fact, still seeking retribution seems like a shady move. Well, after all the incommunicado held in the past, wth, we're still the best of friends, so what? That's OUR fate, stick to it and be nice.

To conclude, I still love you guys, no matter what had or what will, happen. Those bad histories are best left in the dungeon of sorrow, and I'm now going to put a big wide smile on my face! :)

p/s: Yeay! Joe's gonna be back in town tomorrow!